Explore the Ever After Wealth® Divorce Financial Planning Blog!

How you begin your divorce can shape your financial future more than almost anything else. Mediator Susan Guthrie and I break down what really happens in litigation, mediation, and collaborative divorce — and how to choose the right path.

In the high-stakes environment of divorce, decision-making isn't just difficult—neurologically, it is nearly impossible. When the brain is under the extreme stress of litigation, it defaults to shortcuts, avoids trade-offs, and succumbs to "ego depletion," leading even the most successful professionals to make impulsive or illogical decisions. This "fog" creates two dangerous extremes: the spouse who stays silent out of fear, and the spouse who makes unrealistic demands.

I'm asked about my fees and process constantly. Here's the truth: I don't have a standard answer—because your divorce isn't standard. And cookie-cutter planning can cost you six or seven figures.

Discover the hidden financial risks of collaborative divorce for business owners, physicians, and spouses. Learn why financial safeguards are essential.

CDFA Gabriella E. Martinelli joins the Divorce & Beyond® Podcast to reveal how business owners can avoid costly financial mistakes during divorce and protect the business they’ve worked so hard to build.