top of page

Explore the Ever After Wealth® Divorce Financial Planning Blog!
Have more questions? CALL US DIRECTLY


When Both Sides Finally See Clearly: The Power of Financial Clarity in Divorce
In the high-stakes environment of divorce, decision-making isn't just difficult—neurologically, it is nearly impossible. When the brain is under the extreme stress of litigation, it defaults to shortcuts, avoids trade-offs, and succumbs to "ego depletion," leading even the most successful professionals to make impulsive or illogical decisions.
This "fog" creates two dangerous extremes: the spouse who stays silent out of fear, and the spouse who makes unrealistic demands.

Gabriella E. Martinelli, CDFA® CDS® NCMP®
Dec 30, 20258 min read


When Social Media Divorce Advice Goes Wrong (And What to Do Instead)
A divorce financial strategist and family law attorney discuss why crowdsourced divorce advice can create serious legal and financial consequences.

Gabriella E. Martinelli, CDFA® CDS® NCMP®
Dec 23, 20253 min read


When Doing the Right Thing Meets Unrealistic Demands
Unrealistic divorce demands rarely come from greed—they come from fear, influence, and distorted expectations. Here’s what happens when one spouse tries to be fair while the other is guided by everything but the facts.

Gabriella E. Martinelli, CDFA® CDS® NCMP®
Dec 11, 20259 min read


When Trusting the Wrong Person Feels Safer Than Protecting Yourself: The Neuroscience of Financial Abuse in Divorce
The Question That Changes Everything There is a question that has shaped my entire career: When did trusting someone else to "do right by you" become more important than protecting yourself? I don't ask this to judge. I ask it because after more than twenty years working with business owners and physicians navigating high-net-worth divorce, I have seen what happens when fear becomes the one making the financial decisions, and the aftermath is heartbreaking. Women who are sma

Gabriella E. Martinelli, CDFA® CDS® NCMP®
Nov 4, 20258 min read


The Question I Get Asked Most (And Why I Can't Answer It the Way You Expect)
I'm asked about my fees and process constantly. Here's the truth: I don't have a standard answer—because your divorce isn't standard. And cookie-cutter planning can cost you six or seven figures.
Gabriella E. Martinelli
Oct 13, 20255 min read


Why High-Net-Worth Collaborative Divorces Need Additional Financial Safeguards
Discover the hidden financial risks of collaborative divorce for business owners, physicians, and spouses. Learn why financial safeguards are essential.

Gabriella E. Martinelli, CDFA® CDS® NCMP®
Aug 19, 20256 min read


Divorce-Proofing Your Business: Gabriella E. Martinelli, CDFA® Featured on the Divorce & Beyond® Podcast
CDFA Gabriella E. Martinelli joins the Divorce & Beyond® Podcast to reveal how business owners can avoid costly financial mistakes during divorce and protect the business they’ve worked so hard to build.

Ever After Wealth®
Jul 28, 20252 min read
bottom of page
