Guides and Resources
Start With Clarity, Not Assumptions
Each guide below addresses the financial questions that carry the most consequence in a complex divorce, written for the person who has to make the decision. No sales material. No general advice rewritten from somewhere else.
Divorce does not have to destroy your wealth. With the right strategy, it can protect it.
For Business Owners
3 Financial Blind Spots Every Business Owner Should Know Before Signing a Settlement
Valuation disputes, double-dipping, and the questions you should be asking your advisory team — with the real-world context behind each one.
How I work with business ownersFor Physicians and Dentists
The Physician's Divorce Financial Brief
Three financial blind spots every physician, surgeon, and dentist should understand before the numbers become permanent, with diagnostic questions for your advisory team.
How I work with physiciansFor Accomplished Women
Breaking the Intelligence-Shame Cycle in Divorce
The full framework behind the Wonder Woman Paradox — the four stages, the patterns that produce them, and what to do before they cost you.
Read more on this workIf You Were Not the Financial Lead
What You Need to Know When You Were Not the Financial Lead
The framework for reconstructing a financial picture you did not build. Three patterns of work, taken in sequence, that move you from fragments to clarity.
Where to beginInsights
Reading While You Decide
The guides above go deep on one subject each. The writing below covers the rest.
Business Owners
The Most Expensive Misunderstanding in a Business Owner's Divorce
Business owners going through divorce face a financial translation problem most people never see coming. Here is what gets lost, what it costs, and what divorce financial planning for business owners actually requires.
Read →Emotions & Financial Decisions in Divorce
The Most Expensive Silence in Divorce
Why the most accomplished women pay the highest price for staying quiet, and how strategic clarity protects what they have built.
Read →Business Owners
Personal Goodwill: The Most Expensive Thing Most Business Owners Misunderstand About Divorce
Inside almost every business valuation lies a distinction worth hundreds of thousands of dollars. Most divorces never test it. This is the personal versus enterprise goodwill question, and why getting it wrong is one of the largest preventable financial losses in any business-owner divorce.
Read →When a Guide Is Not Enough
A guide can show you which questions matter. It cannot analyze your settlement, value your practice, or model what a proposal will mean in ten years. When you are ready for that, we should talk.